No, this isn't a discussion about Archie Bunker. If you're considering changing careers, though, you might want to read on. One of the biggest and most overlooked challenges is managing how a career change affects your family and close friends. An SO (significant other) may have trouble understanding why you want to toss a previous job aside (especially one that pays well or has a good deal of status) and start in a new field--perhaps at the bottom of the ladder. A career swap can also lead to different working hours and alter one's social circle.
Given such profound implications, it's wise to consult with family members and elicit their support before embarking on a career odyssey. Not every partner will agree to the new plan (one woman divorced her husband after he opted to exit a lucrative job on Wall Street in order to become a minister. "I married an investment banker and that's what I want," she explained!). Not every friend is guaranteed to show support. Moreover, kids may have to deal with different schedules and a partner may have to provide extra support and understanding. As career counselor Helen Harkness puts it: "A person is essentially changing identities."
The bottom line on the front lines of career change: Communicate, communicate, communicate. It will help you find the work you love.
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